For the person who loves people in theory and finds it harder in practice.
If you have ever meant to reach out and did not, given your best attention to people who did not particularly need it while the people who mattered most got what was left over, or felt the gap between how you want to love and how you are actually living, this pathway was built for that. Not as a relational self-help program, but as a genuine act of formation, one that takes seriously both the psychological research on what investing in others actually does to a person and the theological reality that you were made to extend what you have freely received.
The Love Others Formation Pathway is a 28-day, 49-page self-guided Christian workbook built around the standard Jesus set on the night before his crucifixion: love one another as I have loved you. Drawing on the research of Ed Diener and Christopher Peterson on relationships and human flourishing, reframed within the covenantal logic of John 13:34, it walks you through four structured weeks: observing how agapic love is already moving in your life and where it is stopping, understanding who is actually in your relational world and where your time and energy are genuinely going, mapping that investment honestly against the people who matter most using the Relational Investment Map, and anchoring what you find in the practice of giving real, intentional time to the people your map revealed are owed more of you than they are currently receiving.
This is not a book about being a better friend. It is a workbook for people who are serious about loving others the way they have been loved and ready to look honestly at the gap between that intention and their actual relational life. It will ask something of you.
28 days of content. 49 pages. PDF download. Designed to follow your Greatest Commandment Assessment results or taken as a standalone starting point for anyone ready to look honestly at how they are loving the people in their life and who wants that love to be more real, more costly, and more like the One it is meant to reflect.
$34 — or use code DOLLARADAY at checkout for introductory pricing of $28. Available through 2026.
For the person who loves people in theory and finds it harder in practice.
If you have ever meant to reach out and did not, given your best attention to people who did not particularly need it while the people who mattered most got what was left over, or felt the gap between how you want to love and how you are actually living, this pathway was built for that. Not as a relational self-help program, but as a genuine act of formation, one that takes seriously both the psychological research on what investing in others actually does to a person and the theological reality that you were made to extend what you have freely received.
The Love Others Formation Pathway is a 28-day, 49-page self-guided Christian workbook built around the standard Jesus set on the night before his crucifixion: love one another as I have loved you. Drawing on the research of Ed Diener and Christopher Peterson on relationships and human flourishing, reframed within the covenantal logic of John 13:34, it walks you through four structured weeks: observing how agapic love is already moving in your life and where it is stopping, understanding who is actually in your relational world and where your time and energy are genuinely going, mapping that investment honestly against the people who matter most using the Relational Investment Map, and anchoring what you find in the practice of giving real, intentional time to the people your map revealed are owed more of you than they are currently receiving.
This is not a book about being a better friend. It is a workbook for people who are serious about loving others the way they have been loved and ready to look honestly at the gap between that intention and their actual relational life. It will ask something of you.
28 days of content. 49 pages. PDF download. Designed to follow your Greatest Commandment Assessment results or taken as a standalone starting point for anyone ready to look honestly at how they are loving the people in their life and who wants that love to be more real, more costly, and more like the One it is meant to reflect.
$34 — or use code DOLLARADAY at checkout for introductory pricing of $28. Available through 2026.
