Love the Lord Formation Course
Twenty-eight days of honest, structured formation work grounded in Scripture and informed by psychology. Designed to move you from observation to understanding to practiced return, toward the one thing David named in Psalm 27 and Mary of Bethany chose without apology: presence with God as the organizing center of everything else.
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Domain Introduction: Love the Lord
What we know is this: that love is not just a product of the Trinity. It is not something God does when conditions are right. It is what God IS, and when He made you, He made you to participate in it.
What we know is this: that love is not just a product of the Trinity. It is not something God does when conditions are right. It is what God IS, and when He made you, He made you to participate in it.
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Day 1: What does it actually feel like to be in relationship with God?
You are not being asked to fix anything this week. You are being asked to look at what is already there in your relationship with God.
You are not being asked to fix anything this week. You are being asked to look at what is already there in your relationship with God.
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Day 2: Love the Lord
Today you orient the whole week around the one organizing center: whether your deepest affection, attention, and devotion are actually directed toward God as the center of your life.
Today you orient the whole week around the one organizing center: whether your deepest affection, attention, and devotion are actually directed toward God as the center of your life.
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Day 3: Attachment and Closeness
There is a difference between knowing that God exists and sensing that He is near. Today, you notice what attachment and closeness to Him actually feel like from the inside.
There is a difference between knowing that God exists and sensing that He is near. Today, you notice what attachment and closeness to Him actually feel like from the inside.
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Day 4: Intimacy and Communion
Intimacy with God is deeper than closeness. Today you pay attention to the quality of what happens when you are in His presence, and whether it feels like genuine contact or something quieter.
Intimacy with God is deeper than closeness. Today you pay attention to the quality of what happens when you are in His presence, and whether it feels like genuine contact or something quieter.
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Day 5: Grace and Forgiveness
Grace is what God extends toward you across the history of your relationship, not because you have earned it but because it is His nature to give it. Today you notice where you are actually receiving it and where you are holding it at arm's length.
Grace is what God extends toward you across the history of your relationship, not because you have earned it but because it is His nature to give it. Today you notice where you are actually receiving it and where you are holding it at arm's length.
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Day 6: Peace and Thankfulness
Peace, in the biblical sense, is not the absence of difficulty. Today you notice where you have more shalom than your circumstances alone can account for, and what you are genuinely thankful to God for as the day ends.
Peace, in the biblical sense, is not the absence of difficulty. Today you notice where you have more shalom than your circumstances alone can account for, and what you are genuinely thankful to God for as the day ends.
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Day 7: End of Week Reflection
You have spent five days watching. Before moving forward, you gather what this week has shown you about the actual shape of your relationship with God.
You have spent five days watching. Before moving forward, you gather what this week has shown you about the actual shape of your relationship with God.
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Day 8: What does it mean that this relationship is not incidental to who you are?
Week 2 opens with a question: not what does your relationship with God feel like, but what is it actually for? Today you receive the week's framing and the claim it will spend five days making.
Week 2 opens with a question: not what does your relationship with God feel like, but what is it actually for? Today you receive the week's framing and the claim it will spend five days making.
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Day 9: The Research Nobody Talks About
For decades, researchers have documented what happens to human beings when faith is a living, practiced reality. Today you bring that evidence into conversation with what Jesus described in John 15:5 and apply it honestly to your own life.
For decades, researchers have documented what happens to human beings when faith is a living, practiced reality. Today you bring that evidence into conversation with what Jesus described in John 15:5 and apply it honestly to your own life.
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Day 10: Awe and What It Does to a Person
There is a kind of experience researchers call awe, the encounter with something so vast and good that ordinary categories give way. Today you go looking for one thing that produces genuine worship in you and notice what it does to your sense of your relationship with God.
There is a kind of experience researchers call awe, the encounter with something so vast and good that ordinary categories give way. Today you go looking for one thing that produces genuine worship in you and notice what it does to your sense of your relationship with God.
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Day 11: When the Relationship Holds Anyway
Job was blameless and upright, and he suffered anyway. Today you sit with what a real relationship with God looks like under maximum pressure, and you write out something you have been bringing to God in managed form rather than its actual weight.
Job was blameless and upright, and he suffered anyway. Today you sit with what a real relationship with God looks like under maximum pressure, and you write out something you have been bringing to God in managed form rather than its actual weight.
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Day 12: Does That Sound Like God?
Job's restoration was not a reward for his performance. Today, you examine what it means to seek first the kingdom in one specific area of your life where you are not yet doing that.
Job's restoration was not a reward for his performance. Today, you examine what it means to seek first the kingdom in one specific area of your life where you are not yet doing that.
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Day 13: Abiding as a Way of Life
Abiding is not a feeling. Today you draft what returning to God could realistically look like in the actual texture of your ordinary days, as a working document you will refine and practice in Week 3.
Abiding is not a feeling. Today you draft what returning to God could realistically look like in the actual texture of your ordinary days, as a working document you will refine and practice in Week 3.
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Day 14: End of Week Reflection
Before moving into Week 3, you gather what the Understand week has shown you and close with a prayer that brings whatever this week has named in you honestly before God.
Before moving into Week 3, you gather what the Understand week has shown you and close with a prayer that brings whatever this week has named in you honestly before God.
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Day 15: Learning to see Him everywhere.
The world is not silent about who God is. Today, you receive the character bank, learn the daily beauty practice, and make your first observation.
The world is not silent about who God is. Today, you receive the character bank, learn the daily beauty practice, and make your first observation.
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Day 16: Observe and Reflect
Day 1 of the beauty practice. Today, you bring what you noticed back to the character bank and ask what it shows you about His attributes.
Day 1 of the beauty practice. Today, you bring what you noticed back to the character bank and ask what it shows you about His attributes.
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Day 17: The Heavens Declare Him
Day 2 of the beauty practice. Today, you notice what the repeated act of looking is doing to the quality of your attention to the world around you.
Day 2 of the beauty practice. Today, you notice what the repeated act of looking is doing to the quality of your attention to the world around you.
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Day 18: His Glory is Reflected Everywhere
Day 3 of the beauty practice. Today, you notice which attributes are appearing most often and which remain harder to see.
Day 3 of the beauty practice. Today, you notice which attributes are appearing most often and which remain harder to see.
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Day 19: The Sky Proclaims His Power
Day 4 of the beauty practice. Today, you continue the practice as it becomes more grounded.
Day 4 of the beauty practice. Today, you continue the practice as it becomes more grounded.
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Day 20: His Handiwork is All Around
Day 5 of the beauty practice. Today, you bring what you noticed to the character bank one final time and begin to sense the shape of what this week has been forming in you.
Day 5 of the beauty practice. Today, you bring what you noticed to the character bank one final time and begin to sense the shape of what this week has been forming in you.
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Day 21: End of Week Reflection
You have spent five days practicing a particular kind of attention. Today, you gather what the week has accumulated and ask what it was like to move through the world actively expecting to find God in it.
You have spent five days practicing a particular kind of attention. Today, you gather what the week has accumulated and ask what it was like to move through the world actively expecting to find God in it.
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Day 22: What does it look like when loving God becomes the texture of everyday life?
The Shema does not describe a devotional practice set apart from ordinary life. It describes ordinary life itself, restructured around a single orientation. Today, you receive the Week 4 practice and the three returning points that will organize your days around.
The Shema does not describe a devotional practice set apart from ordinary life. It describes ordinary life itself, restructured around a single orientation. Today, you receive the Week 4 practice and the three returning points that will organize your days around.
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Day 23: The Lord Your God is One
Day 1 of the Shema practice. Morning, midday, and evening, you record what returning to God looked like at each natural hinge of the day.
Day 1 of the Shema practice. Morning, midday, and evening, you record what returning to God looked like at each natural hinge of the day.
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Day 24: These Words Shall Be On Your Heart
Day 2 of the Shema practice. You notice how far you have traveled from your morning orientation by midday, and what it feels like to turn back.
Day 2 of the Shema practice. You notice how far you have traveled from your morning orientation by midday, and what it feels like to turn back.
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Day 25: Teach These Words Diligently
Day 3 of the Shema practice. The practice is becoming more familiar. You notice what is getting easier and what is still effortful about the returning.
Day 3 of the Shema practice. The practice is becoming more familiar. You notice what is getting easier and what is still effortful about the returning.
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Day 26: Talk of Them When You Sit and Walk
Day 4 of the Shema practice. You pay attention to which of the three moments, morning, midday, or evening, feels most natural to you and which feels most difficult.
Day 4 of the Shema practice. You pay attention to which of the three moments, morning, midday, or evening, feels most natural to you and which feels most difficult.
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Day 27: Talk of Them When You Sleep and Wake
Day 5 of the Shema practice. You bring your full attention to all three returning points and notice what a day restructured around this rhythm actually looks like from the inside.
Day 5 of the Shema practice. You bring your full attention to all three returning points and notice what a day restructured around this rhythm actually looks like from the inside.
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Day 28: End of Pathway Reflection
You have spent twenty-eight days attending to the relationship that is the organizing center of everything else. Today, you gather what the month has shown you, name the most significant shift, and close with a word to the One you have been learning to love.
You have spent twenty-eight days attending to the relationship that is the organizing center of everything else. Today, you gather what the month has shown you, name the most significant shift, and close with a word to the One you have been learning to love.
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What You'll Learn
What your relationship with God actually looks like right nowMost people have a sense of what their relationship with God should look like. This pathway starts with what it actually looks like, the texture of it, the places where it is warm and present and the places where it is dry or effortful, before asking anything else of you.
Why this relationship is the organizing condition of everything elseDrawing on decades of research on faith and wellbeing alongside the theology of John 15, Week 2 makes a case you may not have heard put this directly: your relationship with God is not one important thing among many. It is the ground everything else stands on.
How to see God's character written into ordinary lifeWeek 3 trains a particular kind of attention, the practice of noticing beauty in creation, in craftsmanship, in moral goodness, and learning to read what it reveals about who God is. By the end of the week the world looks different.
What it means to love God with the actual texture of your daysWeek 4 anchors everything in the Shema structure of Deuteronomy 6, morning, midday, and evening return. Not a new devotional routine. A reorientation of ordinary life around the one thing that has always mattered most.